I’d like to remind everyone that sometimes you only hear one side of the story. Don’t jump to someone’s side saying they’re a victim if all they post are rude things people are saying to them. They can happily delete asks that prove them wrong, or are nice but disagree with them.
It’s easy to shape a viewers opinion by withholding information or skewing it to fit their agenda.
i have only been deleting really nasty asks and ones that are just a bunch of jumbly ranting about how much i suck, although i have deleted a couple anon asks because i cant answer those privately(i’ve stopped answering them publically because i dont want that stuff on my tumblr).
in no way have i ever tried playing victim throughout the argument or manipulate it to make me look like the victim? is me posting how i feel about the crap i’ve gotten playing victim? should i just pretend i am unaffected by everything everyone has said? /sigh.
this shouldnt even BE “tag drama” because what i originally posted wasnt even related to chickensmoothie. the only reason it got on the tag was because of a couple rants and it being put on the tag unnecessarily because wigglytuff felt that it was necessary to “warn the community” THREE TIMES about how much im apparently an ableist, homophobe, racist, bigoted, etc., which is impletely untrue? i know myself better than any of you do and i know perfectly what all of those words mean, and let you tell me i am far from being any of that.
also, 20+ people think i’m a despicable douchebag, and around… 6-7 people have told me that what has happened was rude and unfair to me? people are going to have different opinions.
and also, it’s not freaking right to decide that because something was said that offends you, that you have the right to make them feel as terrible and as low as they could ever possibly feel about themselves. at least what i originally said wasn’t intended to frickin hurt people? yet it did, and i am truly sorry for that, i really am. the only REASON you have not seen me say this yet is because i don’t WANT to apologize to someone(unless she wants to sincerely apologize to me as well in a way that will somehow justify the terrible things she’s said— although we all know that wont happen because she thinks what she said is PERFECTLY A-OKAY) who tells me to shove a bunch of rusty razorblades up my vagina and get eternal yeast infections. i don’t want to apologize to her, in fact thats the last thing id want to do, i feel like i need to apologize to all the other people who i could’ve offended.
there you have it. i’m really sick of the drama, and all the lies and misinformation being flung around about me. i’ve tried telling her how incorrect what shes saying about me is, but she blatantly ignores me as if she just wants to make everything i say and do make as negative and offensive as it could possibly be.
the above isn’t me playing victim, it’s me saying my true thoughts on this whole thing.